How to Have a Soft and Straight Beard

How to Have a Soft and Straight Beard

A very common question that I get all the time is how to make your beard soft and straight. And for a good reason.

When you first start growing a beard this isn’t something that you had in mind. Don’t you worry though. I prepared this article for you to guide you step by step and understand how to soften your beard easily and with not too much effort.

Fellow manly gentlemen,

I am sure you have noticed, orange is no longer the new black. Beard is!

Since 2011 on, haute couture fashion brands, such as Jean Paul Gautier, Giorgio Armani and all the others we so much want to wear but most of the times can’t afford, have started this trend. It is seems to be here to stay.

I am sure that your girlfriends have informed you already that even George Clooney and Ben Affleck joined the bearded community.

Now, as you must be aware, growing a beard doesn’t mean simply giving up shaving. Just like with all beautiful things in life, it comes with hard work, determination, passion and care.

But if you have just embarked the journey, you might have some questions or you might deal with some confusion. You might have already encountered some problems.

  • Is your beard rough as a wire?
  • Does your girlfriend complain about taking a layer of skin off her face every time you kiss her? (just a mild exaggeration)
  • Does your skin itch like crazy?
  • You wonder why all this is happening to you?

Worry no longer! Problems, solutions and tips and tricks will be spelled out for you, to make your life easier and to make you want to grow a beard FOREVER!

We will share with you some of our beard wisdom in order to help you make your beard as soft as a bunny’s tail and to actually make you enjoy the experience of growing a beard!

First, we will explain the potential reasons for which your beard is hard and rough.

We will also present you some of the steps to follow in order to make your beard softer.

Then we will share with you some of the finest products to use in the softening process and we will finish with some of our best kept secrets related to our own beard care routine.

Buckle your seatbelts, we’re starting the journey.


Why is my beard rough and itches and how can I soften my beard

So you’ve finally started following your heart’s desire and stopped shaving. While looking around at all those manly bearded men, you thought this was going to be easy, didn’t you? You though that just giving your razor a break will do the trick for you, right?

But now that you have three months since you started, you realize that it’s not such a piece of cake after all. Your beard has a decent length, but the quality is not the best? It’s a bit wiry and difficult to manage?

Well, the only thing we can say is, don’t worry, we’ve all been there.

But WHY? Why is this happening? you might be wondering. Well, there are a couple of reasons.


You have to get used to it. Your beard now is part of you. Just like the hair on your head. But unlike the hair on your head, the beard gets in contact with the food you eat. And it’s more prone to be touched during the day.

Unless you wash your hands super often, then all the germs from your keyboard, the money or the tube might end up in your beard.

Not to mention that it is probably the most exposed part of your body. That means it is the first one to get the dust waves or the rain.

And, unlike the rest of your body, your beard does not have an immune system. It cannot fight debris, food or dust.

In such case, a dirty beard means an unhealthy beard.

An unhealthy beard means a rough beard.

A rough beard means an ugly beard.

And an ugly beard, since it’s on your face, could mean an ugly you.

That’s the last thing a gentleman wants!


Unfortunately, although we are currently living the second industrial revolution, as far as we are aware, nobody invented a protection mechanism for our beards yet.

So if you live in a state with perpetual winter or you just happen to experience the cold season, your face and your beard, implicitly, are probably the only parts of your body which are not covered.

You didn’t think cold temperatures affect the health of your beard? Well, think again. Just like your skin gets dry, your beard gets dry as well. After all, it is a living organisms as long as it is attached to your face. Low temperatures can have a devastating effect for the quality of your beard! Why? Because the effect of dryness is, guess what? A rough hard beard!


We also used to think that dry and non-hydrated is the same thing. But it is not. While dryness is the effect of external causes, dehydration is the effect of internal causes. Dehydration is what happens to your body when you lose more liquids than you gain.

Dehydration, has, unfortunately, an ugly effect, for our skin, but also for everything that is attached to it. As a general rule, not drinking enough water for a longer period of time can have some ugly consequences. Like a very tired complexion, full of spots or a very dull and wiry bear, lacking shine and health.


And speaking of water, not all water is good for you. We learned this the hard way.

Washing with hard water can have negative effects on the quality of your beard as well. What do we mean by hard water?

Hard water is water that has high amounts of minerals in its structure. You can understand that the water is hard when it leaves this type of chalk on the surfaces it gets in contact with.

With hard water, it’s like you get in a vicious circle.

It makes your beard rough and tangled. As such, it becomes more difficult to wash off the product when you try to rinse. Leaving too much product in your beard can make it even rougher. Not to mention that the cleaning agents in the shampoo or soap do not work as effectively as usual, when in contact with hard water, due to the excess of minerals.


Perhaps you think you are following all the right steps: cleaning, protection, hydration, conditioning, trimming. But your beard is still rough. There might be something wrong with that last step right there. We know everybody speaks about the importance of trimming when growing a beard. But what most people don’t say is that it is also important to give your beard a good quality trimming.

Using the wrong scissors or trimmer can have negative effects on the quality of your beard. Once you get your trimming game on, make sure that your trimming gadget is properly cleaned and properly sharpened. Otherwise, this can lead to actually breaking the hair, instead of cutting it. And beard will be more prone to split ends which will lead to… ? You guessed it right! A rough beard.


How do I soften a rought beard

Now that we have provided you with the causes of a rough beard, we are also going to share with you some of the tricks we keep in our sleeves, to help you tame the rough beast that is taking over your face.

It might seem too much in the beginning, but once you manage to make a routine out of this, you will get to understand the benefits of a properly maintained beard.

And the solutions are:


First of all, in order to maintain a healthy, good-looking beard, you need to wash away all the dirt of the day.

So, give your beard a proper shampooing and conditioning. Our motto in terms of hygiene is that there is no such thing as too clean. So don’t worry about washing your beard too often. Three times per week would be a fair number of times, if you ask us.

Besides, just to whisper you a secret, shampooing comes with a by default massage.

The more you massage your skin, the more you improve circulation and speed up the hair growth process.

Just rub your beard the same way you do with your hair and apply the conditioner.

That being said, there is one thing you have to be careful with: rinsing. After each step, make sure you got all the extra product off your beard, because otherwise, this will have the opposite effect: instead of getting softer, your beard will get dry and, thus, rougher.


You know what they say: you are what you eat.

The healthier your diet, the handsomer you will look. This is a general rule.

But there are some particular foods that will help with your healthy beard growth.

For example, foods rich in biotin (vitamin H) will do wonders for the quality of your beard. It is a crucial nutrient helping with growth and cell regeneration.

Try to eat eggs, nuts, avocado, salmon and low-fat cheese, all very rich in biotin.

In order to balance the oil glands around your hair follicles, try oysters, crabs or clams once in awhile. I would suggest it when you have a date and you want to move to the next base. I heard they send the right messages (wink wink).

For extra shine, eat foods rich in vitamin A, such as sweet potatoes, carrots, kale, asparagus or pumpkin seeds.

And the most important, drink water! At least 2 liters per day is what you need in order to bring all the shine inside, on the outside. A hydrated body means a soft beard!

All these, will keep your body healthy and your hair and beard nourished, making it less prone to split ends, dryness and roughness.


Unfortunately, there is no way to escape the low temperatures or the hard water. Unless you want to move to the south and wash you face only with spring water. But that would be a bit of an extreme gesture to do just for the sake of growing a beard.

But the good news is that there are ways to keep your beard protected, hydrated and nourished. Some of our bearded men have sacrificed themselves for our bearded future. They have come up with the proper cosmetic solutions to our problems.

If you are not a complete debutant at this bearded situation, you might already be aware of the great range of beard grooming products.

From beard oils to waxes and balms, from soaps to shampoos, from beard brushes to beard combs, there is an exceptional range of products out there just waiting to be tested.

They will all help you compensate for what nature cannot solve.

We strongly advise you to give these products some consideration.


Speaking of beard grooming products, there is a short note we want to make. As stated above, the range is huge.

But the bigger the range of products, the higher the chances to make the wrong choice and instead of caressing your beard, end up causing more damage.

It is for this reason that we strongly advise you to do a proper research before investing. Look up the ingredients, their effects, the brand. You don’t want to end up with a product containing too many chemicals, but neither with one that was prepared in a bathtub. Handmade means most of the times socially responsible. But there are also times when it conveniently covers for something else.

Since these products go on your face and through absorption, in your body, pay attention to what you’re buying!

Now that we have presented you the potential causes for beard roughness and the ways to make your beard softer, it also gives us great pleasure to share with you our very best Seven Potions products.

Created with manly love for grooming, respect for nature and care for customers’ well being and handsomeness, our products might be just what you need to help your beard reach its full potential.


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